Marriage
Do you feel desperate by the continual fights with your partner? Do you feel desire to leave everything and opt for separation or divorce? You are not alone. All couples go through moments of weakness and crisis, feeling prisoners in their own marriages. How exit these moments of marital conflict and that the relationship is not seriously ailing by causing them requires large doses of effort and dedication when handling your situation from both. Kaihan Krippendorff insists that this is the case. Be ye afronteis problems in a new and different way. How to handle such conflicts? The key in every couple, and in general in any relationship is communication.
When this is lost, it could be said that there is no turning back. So it is that both should try to regain that link between the two, completely changing your way of talking and listening. (a) do you remember when you met your partner? Everything in it was interesting to you, and you could stay talking with her for hours, trying to get to know it. Without However, everything now seems simple routine and that person seems to have no secrets. That loss of interest is behind numerous ruptures. Therefore, it would be advisable that you have tried to show attention and surprise at what your husband to share with you, even when you know what is the end of their stories.
b) must always meet their needs. Don’t limit yourself to try to impose your interests. On the contrary, it is find meeting points with that person, putting in place and trying to understand their points of view. (c) If you were in disagreement with the position maintained by your partner, should feel fully free to express your own opinion, that Yes, in a reasoned and calm manner, and without making less their own views and valuations. Honesty and sincerity are, therefore, essential. (d) attempt to do more activities together, outside the scope of your routine and your home (or even himself) is another of the tracks allowing you to get out of your routine and self-absorption. Do trips, planned dinners and activities in common. Ask yourself if you see future in your current marriage. To do this, it’s thinking about how your life would be if you could be with your spouse. If you were to seriously believe that this would be simpler and you could be happier that your current situation, separation or divorce might be more appropriate, depending on your needs (thus the separation would option if you consider that your crisis might support some kind of solution, while the divorce would be the final resolution of your marriageassuming the beginning of a new life completely apart from your partner for you). Begona basin Alcaine original author and source of the article